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If you really want to jump to light speed and change your life, you will need to:

1. Admit that you have a need and that you can't fix it yourself    
2. Find someone who has been there and who is out and has survived (this is what GXG provides)
3. Find someone who is already much stronger than you are trying to be. Don't seek out someone for help who talks too much. 
4. Move from your area, as you can't stay in your neighborhood and avoid the crew. They will see you’re leaving as a threat and fear that others will follow suit.
5. Seek a residence with a relative in another state. When you move, you must shut your face. When you run you head, and state your claim to fame, you put a spot light on yourself. Unless you have lots of relatives with lots of patience, you might want to start fresh and begin again, one time.
6. Get involved in other activities and lifestyles, as another group can provide companionship that you will crave. It will feed the need for peoples. It isn't about the thrill any more; it is about blending in and Surviving. Again, reinvent yourself.   Shut your face.
7. Talk with a local student guidance counselor, community services board member, and/or Community Center Activities Dir. This way, you have back up and cover, legitimately. If you can't move and all else fails, then anyone can do what works every time.
8. You can go to a local Church and get a life change. If you begin to “preach” at your homies, you will not need to worry about avoiding them, they will avoid you. Trust me on this one. When I was leaving an organized crime group.I remember seeing people running down the street to avoid me. I was trying to change them, and they didn't want me any more. They didn't want to hurt me, and knew I wasn't trying to hurt them, or talk about them. I didn't have a big break up, they just stopped calling, and stopped coming by. They hoped I would change, eventually and come back to them. However, until then, they stepped back and gave me room. If you don't mean it, this can be dangerous. If you really want a heart change, this will work from the inside out. If you read the stories to the right, you can catch the concept, as these are really changed people. At one time, they had nothing to live for, and now they aren't afraid to die.

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